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The “slacker” grew up…

In Defining Events, GenX Literature, GenX Pop Culture, Work Values on September 29, 2011 at 10:31 am

It should not be news to you that the term “slacker” is used interchangeably with Generation X. Whether you look at Douglas Copeland’s work or watch “Reality Bites“….you will see where the term originated as we stormed through our twenties.

Although I still have a bit of resentment about boomers coining this label for my generation, I still find myself sentimentally attached to it.  I must also admit that I like the irony of it now….

As my generation enters middle age we look around and suddenly see ourselves in positions of power.  Board chairs, upper management, executives….quietly making important decisions, shaping our communities, and visioning where we want more change. Yet we still identify as being the other person, the person outside the group of power and we retain our fierce distrust of authority, our love of irony and our celebration of everything outside of convention.  Here we are, reading the NYT on our iPhones while we are at our kids’ soccer games, drinking our triple grande soy latte’s in a recycled cup, joking about the “man” and how he’s got us down….while uncomfortably giggling at the irony of it all.  Our generation loves and embraces irony more than any prior or since so we view our seemingly incongruity with humor and un-attachment.  Yes folks, we have begun to take charge but we remain steadfast in our slacker reality bites roots.   And let me remind you, that is perfectly ok.

We must retain our attachment to the word slacker.  We still look for easier & better ways of doing things, getting the same result with less effort.  We still mock all that is convention while recognizing that we are now part of it, we still scoff and roll our eyes when those steeped in tradition can’t see value in new, we still appreciate the irony of sitting in positions of power when we don’t identify as one of “them”.  If we lose these very characteristics of our generation, we assimilate.  This is our time, embrace our roots and keep making change, my fellow slackers.

Utopia and GenerationX

In GenX Literature, Work Values on April 10, 2010 at 12:39 pm

Utopia: a society where beauty reigns, poverty and misery are absent.

It is a beautiful spring day.  Flowers are blooming, birds are singing and the prospect of summer approaching warms the heart of this generation X’er. Appreciation for winter being over is not unique to specific generations.  We are all thankful for those moments of bliss and feeling that everything in the world is right.   I emphasize the word moment. I treasure those utopia like moments.  Where the strife of human kind and the poverty and misery I witness daily in my non-profit work are quiet in my head.  But then…I come back to reality, the moment is appreciated and noticed but quick and fleeting.

Where am I going with this you ask? Well…I recently landed on an advertisement for homes in “The Villages,”  a utopian retirement community catering to boomers  in Florida-it is currently 80,000 people strong.  I watched the advertising video’s with perverse interest.  However,  I haven’t been able to shake the creepy feeling I was left with after watching clips about “cowboy hat Friday’s” and “we are living a permanent vacation!”   The community is entirely self-sustaining,  privately owned and operated-from utilities to law enforcement.  There are strict guidelines to how long grandchildren can stay, almost no crime and there are 9,000 golf tee times a day. And apparently, it is such popular place that residents have signed up in droves to live on vacation daily.

So I ask myself, why the weird feeling?  Does the idea of some people getting to live on a permanent vacation bother me? Is it the gross emphasis on a monoculture that bugs me? Was it the resemblance to the Stepford Wives that got under my skin? I’m not a golf fan so maybe it was all the golf that pushed me over the edge.

No, it is the philosophy that utopia is attainable and if it isn’t present, we’ll just create it.  A mindset that I believe is far more prevalent in the generations before me.  An inclination that has served the non-profit advocacy movement well for many years.  Why work the long hours for little pay if you don’t believe that at the end, there IS utopia?  An end to poverty, an end to racism, domestic violence and child hunger.

I believe Utopia is a good read and fabulous place to visit for a spell, but it is purely fiction.

X’ers are typed as being pessimistic by nature.  We hope for change, we just don’t expect it.  We aren’t surprised by failed systems, failed people or leaders.  So the idea of utopia for us, really is fiction.  We aim for impact, we plan for change, we work for outcome.  But the outcome is rarely the end of some social ill, it is rather a change in the way to prevent or respond to it.

Meanwhile, boomers are on the linear plane.  Thinking of how to get from here to there-”there” being utopia.  The ideal.  We must create the ideal.  We CAN create the ideal.

You can imagine there may be a bit of a conflict when it comes to administration and leadership of non profits that are founded on “curing” human misery.   I see it in board strategic planning sessions, executive evaluations, outreach events and discussions about “the movement”. While the conflict is frequent, the root of it generally goes unnoticed while we get stuck throwing labels around like “naïve idealist” and “cold-hearted cynic”.

In typical X fashion, I bring attention to the conflict yet I am without concrete answers to resolve it.  I’m interested in your thoughts about utopia and the ideal.  Meanwhile,  I’m going back outside to enjoy the short-lived spring weather.

It’s our time….Goonies Anthem or GenX Manifesto?

In GenX Literature, GenX Pop Culture on February 22, 2010 at 9:35 pm

I finally opened “X Saves the World, How Generation X Got the Shaft but Can Still Keep Everything From Sucking“….and I ask myself WHY did it take me so long to put this manifesto of Gen X on the top of my reading list?!  Jeff Gordinier is witty, poignant & sharp. He adds just the right amount of cynicism and anti-conformity into discussion of the fabric that makes us similar that I am inspired by the first page…not an easy task, to inspire a GenX’er.

So far…a take home is that it is our time.  We are sandwiched between the successful self promoting boomers and the instant gratification millenials and we don’t like the limelight, yet we ARE making a difference.  Gordinier’s introduction reminded me to watch a clip of Mikey from the movie The Goonies where he proclaims that down here, its “our time”.

We’re in the trenches folks….we’re doing the work that is changing our world.  Despite our hatred of group mentality and comformity…isn’t it time to recognize we ARE a cultural group that is making change?

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