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The economy…from the GenX perspective

In Uncategorized on November 7, 2011 at 5:13 pm

This is not news to X’ers, but we are the first generation in the US to be worse off financially than our parents, as recognized in an Associated Press article that hit the media today. I’m thrilled that the issue has claimed the attention of the AP but seeing the phenomenon written out in black and white, in hundreds of news sources across the country leaves me with a sour stomach.  Why?  Because it is accurate.  Many GenXers and Millennials are living with very high student loan debt, little to no net worth and have been disproportionately affected by the mortgage and housing crisis.

To quote the article “The typical household headed by a person age 65 or older has a net worth 47 times greater than a household headed by someone under 35.

Before you jump to the explanation that people accumulate wealth and assets as they age and we Xer’s just need to put our time in, the article is also quoted as saying that “the gap is now more than DOUBLE what it was in 2005 and five times what it was 25 years ago, after adjusting for inflation.”   Yes folks, we are the first generation to do worse financially than our parents and our millennial friends behind us hold the same distinction.

This trend has vast consequences for our public and non profit organizations.  Consider our donor base, philanthropy and planned giving best practices the industry has been using for decades. Ask yourself it they take this trend into consideration?  In my experience, the answer is no.  All of these activities are still very boomer and traditionalist focused.  If you haven’t already come to this conclusion, let me be the first to lay it out, in black and white….the way we raise money to support our organizations today, is not what will be successful in a decade.  I encourage you to review the AP article (or the subsequent flurry of articles resulting from the AP article-click here for the Chicago Tribune version) and begin the conversations in your organizations about this trend.

Finally, millions of Americans are struggling financially, that is not news.  But the state of the economy from a GenX filter is news, at least it was today.

Technology, is not an alternative.

In Uncategorized on October 28, 2011 at 5:01 pm

There seem to be two groups of people in the workforce these days.  Those that fear technology and see it exhaustive and a burden and a second group, who see it as a tool to make our work easier.  The division is not always along generation lines-but I do often see the first group born somewhere in the boomer generation.

This is not a new concept, nor can I take credit for calling the concept out for the first time. But I will lay it out there, with a generation lens.

Just yesterday, while in a large strategic planning meeting, I was struck by the division of some seeing technology as a threat and others seeing it as an opportunity.  One particular comment, that started a flurry of fear based comments, was “technology is so unsafe, we have to protect ourselves and our children from it.” While another (also a boomer) chimed in to add “technology is not only unsafe but it is EXHAUSTING, all the constant emails and text messages, I can’t keep up!”  There was a collective sigh, and it was mostly from those well over the age of 55.

Meanwhile, I see the X’ers and Millennials in the group shifting uncomfortably in their chairs.  Some looking around with cagey eyes like they are trapped ready for the finger pointing and  ”those millennials keep texting during meetings” comments to begin. Others were ready to vehemently disagree, wanting to list off all opportunities that technology offers to make our work more effective, efficient and increase accessibility of information.

This division and dynamic is obvious in nearly all meetings, trainings, seminars I attend.

I don’t have a specific solution for either group’s conflict, but I can say that as a “bridge” generation between boomers and millennials…Generation X has a chance to make a significant impact in this argument.  Boomers, some better than others, have adapted to common workplace technology developments like email, texting, internet, google etc. But it has been an adaptation for boomers.  Millennials were born connected, they don’t know a life without it. Meanwhile, GenX, was in our prime developmental years, psychologically, emotionally and educationally during the rise in the use of technology for communications and work.  We were also just beginning our careers during the dot.com explosion-a pivotal turning point in the evolution of technology in the workforce.

As a generation, we can argue both sides of this technology argument.  The positives, the negatives.  The challenges and the opportunities.  What is even better however, is that we can act as the bridge between the boomers and millennials.  Technology is here to stay, and will continue to evolve, avoiding it is no longer an alternative.  Not using email or learning to text for work communications, not googling your next job applicant candidate, avoiding social networking or websites to promote your organization, is no longer cute.  Technology doesn’t have to be scary and bad.

To my fellow X’ers, stand up and offer to help your colleagues to adapt.  Bridge the gap between generations. Explain to millennials about where the fear of technology comes from so they are better able to validate boomers.  At the same time, be assertive with boomers to give time and space for Xer’s and millennials to teach about the advantages of being more connected. Technology has much to offer, so let us frame the conversation to be less about fear and more about an opportunity to learn from other generations.

Retirement, welcome it.

In Work Values on October 13, 2011 at 8:46 pm

The wave has begun…and if you’re not with me here, I speak of the tsunami of  impending retirements in the nonprofit and government sectors that is headed toward us quickly.  Many studies have predicted this, but the economic down turn and drop in retirement accounts of our boomer friends delayed it briefly.   We are seeing the beginning of a mass exodus.  I’ve noticed the shift starting just in the last 9 months,  in my small community, with my clients and the organizations I work and volunteer with.  What is more concerning than the shift, is the response.  The shock, dismay and fear I’ve seen on faces when boomer executives give notice is quickly accompanied with “how are we going to replace you?”, “how can we find somebody to manage all that you do every day?” and most famously  ”there is nobody here that can do or is willing to do your job, what are we going to do?”

Did you hear that sound?  It was the collective sigh of frustration of my GenX colleagues.  For nearly two decades, my generation has been overlooked far more than our predecessors were when they were our age, and with bigger economic impact.  The majority of GenX’ers in public/government jobs and NPO’s are still in middle management, with huge student loan debt, little to no retirement savings and working under a “grey ceiling.” To top it off, we are the generation with a disproportionate percentage of mortgage crisis victims, we are the first generation in the history of our country to NOT do as well financially as our parents and we have workaholic boomers and traditionalists who just won’t retire.  Add to that, the prevailing GenX belief that there are many ways we could and should do business differently than our predecessors…if we only had a chance.  So yes, we have some anxious X’ers wanting to step into those executive jobs that boomers are vacating, and we welcome the tsunami.

The dichotomy between the anxious ready to change things up get out of my way X’ers and the fear of the unknown/there is nobody who will do it like me and with my experience attitude of the boomers is played out nearly every time I hear the word retirement.  Which is usually followed by a tense argument about the value of experience vs. the value of pragmatic results based leadership. Then it quickly degrades into dissent about who are we going to hire to fill this void?

The solution you ask?  Well for one, I’d suggest you approach the void by not looking at it as a void.  The tsunami of job title transitions is an opportunity for change and growth.   Both GenX and Millennials are already in the trenches and we surpass boomers and traditionalists in academic preparation, prior volunteer experience and innovative entrepreneurial ventures. Instead of looking for somebody to fill your shoes, look for somebody to provide a new direction and a breath of fresh air.  Approaching recruitment, even in this economic time, with an opportunity lens will likely get you the candidates you really want, not the warmed over mediocre version of what you already have.  Secondly, LISTEN.  The majority culture (boomers in this case) are classic for “knowing” what is right, but not always seeing alternatives that might also be reality.   Lastly, have a robust and diverse hiring committee, comprised of various generations, experience levels and expertise areas.  THIS will bring in your best candidates and your best match, regardless of generation.

As for retirement.  Welcome it, embrace it, it is not to be feared. Being a GenX ”slacker”, I look forward to the days that I get to retire and choose how I spend every moment of every day. Welcome it!

The “slacker” grew up…

In Defining Events, GenX Literature, GenX Pop Culture, Work Values on September 29, 2011 at 10:31 am

It should not be news to you that the term “slacker” is used interchangeably with Generation X. Whether you look at Douglas Copeland’s work or watch “Reality Bites“….you will see where the term originated as we stormed through our twenties.

Although I still have a bit of resentment about boomers coining this label for my generation, I still find myself sentimentally attached to it.  I must also admit that I like the irony of it now….

As my generation enters middle age we look around and suddenly see ourselves in positions of power.  Board chairs, upper management, executives….quietly making important decisions, shaping our communities, and visioning where we want more change. Yet we still identify as being the other person, the person outside the group of power and we retain our fierce distrust of authority, our love of irony and our celebration of everything outside of convention.  Here we are, reading the NYT on our iPhones while we are at our kids’ soccer games, drinking our triple grande soy latte’s in a recycled cup, joking about the “man” and how he’s got us down….while uncomfortably giggling at the irony of it all.  Our generation loves and embraces irony more than any prior or since so we view our seemingly incongruity with humor and un-attachment.  Yes folks, we have begun to take charge but we remain steadfast in our slacker reality bites roots.   And let me remind you, that is perfectly ok.

We must retain our attachment to the word slacker.  We still look for easier & better ways of doing things, getting the same result with less effort.  We still mock all that is convention while recognizing that we are now part of it, we still scoff and roll our eyes when those steeped in tradition can’t see value in new, we still appreciate the irony of sitting in positions of power when we don’t identify as one of “them”.  If we lose these very characteristics of our generation, we assimilate.  This is our time, embrace our roots and keep making change, my fellow slackers.

I haven’t posted because I’ve been “busy”…

In Uncategorized, Work Values on May 19, 2011 at 10:26 am

Who isn’t busy these days?   Take a moment to look around you now and you’ll see people living their busy lives.  Sure I’ve been busy, but should I blog about all the busy things I’ve been doing?  List out all the mundane tasks that seemed really important to accomplish at the time?… give you a bulleted array of items I’ve been doing since I last blogged?….drone on and on about all my important activities?  Yeah…no.  It would be against my GenXness (and yes, I just made up a new word).

So why do we do this in meetings?  Why do we spend hours of our lives in committee meetings (sitting in uncomfortable chairs in small stuffy rooms around tables) talking about how “busy” we’ve been?  Why are reports to board members (board packets) filled with lists of what we’ve been busy doing?   Sure it is important to know that we have done SOMETHING…but why not focus on the outcomes of our work, the results of being “busy” and the impact of our efforts.

I was just reading thru nearly a dozen board reports and I noticed that EVERY SINGLE report used the word “busy”.  Is it harsh to say that I don’t really want to know what you did last Tuesday or what meetings you’ve been to?  I trust that you are busy doing what you need to do to be successful at your job.  I would rather  know about what happened because you were at that meeting &  what you got out of it.  And if you can’t answer THAT question…maybe you should spend your time in a different way.  

If you want to engage X’ers in your work and meetings, focus on outcomes, results and impact and join me in putting a moratorium on the word “busy”.

2010 in review

In Uncategorized on January 6, 2011 at 12:43 pm

Happy New Year!  As I reflect on my first year of official “blogging” I am filled with  obligatory blogger guilt for not posting more often.  Thankfully, the guilt is counterbalanced with  pride knowing that other people at least READ my thoughts…and a few of you even commented on them!   I had intended to blog for year then re-evaluate….but after I received this handy little wordpress report, I decided the pride outweighed the guilt so I’m committing to another year of a blonde in a sea of grey….

If you are a stats geek like I am,  you’ll be interested to read what wordpress crunched for me.

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

Healthy blog!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Wow.

Crunchy numbers

Featured image

A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 2,600 times in 2010. That’s about 6 full 747s.

In 2010, there were 20 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 9 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 2mb. That’s about a picture per month.

The busiest day of the year was February 3rd with 74 views. The most popular post that day was …don’t you want to be “developed”?.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were facebook.com, digg.com, slashingtongue.com, WordPress Dashboard, and google.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for generation x values, values of generation x, gen x values, generation demographics+technology, and events that shaped generation x.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

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…don’t you want to be “developed”? February 2010
10 comments

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Generation X values…a bit more context March 2010
4 comments

3

all about me…. January 2010

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Technology…game or workhorse? February 2010
6 comments

5

It’s our time….Goonies Anthem or GenX Manifesto? February 2010
4 comments

Here is to another year of blonde’s navigating the sea of grey!!  -V

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